Last night while out with R, we stopped by for dinner at Panera across the way from Lowe’s at Mill Run. While in line we were staring at the menu deciding on our evening fare. The live moved and the couple of guys in front of us gave their order to the cashier. Then added, “and whatever they are having.” indicating R and myself. I took this for a joke, smiled and looked back up at the menu. The guy who made the comment was dressed in shorts, T-shirt and flip-flops. His companion was dressed in business casual. His companion said, “He’s serious. He’s not kidding. He really wants to buy you dinner.” Being the skeptical New Yorker, I was… skeptical. What’s the gag? do i have to buy a magazine subscription? Paint your fence? Are you going to give me a sales pitch for something? I was silent. R said, “You really don’t have to do that.” He said, “I know I don’t have to. But I want to.” At this point he pulled out what looked like business cards and introduced himself as being part of LifePoint Church. I KNEW it! There had to be a scam. Now he’s going to sit with us and harangue into his church. I was all set to tell Brad and Nick to buzz off. But he said two things that gave me pause. (I might paraphrase here a bit) He said Churches do a lot of “talking” about doing good – but not a lot of “doing”. I had to agree with him there. He also said, “No string attached”. This slogan was repeated in the little cards he gave us. The card was plain blue with the words “This is our simple way of saying God loves you. No strings attached.” On the back was contact information for the church. Feeling a little more comfortable R and I agreed. We shook hands and thanked him. We then gave our order to the cashier. Brad reminded us that our order was under another womans name. It appears he had bought not only our dinner (we were behind him) but also the dinner of the group of women in front of him. So all the food was under her name. I went off to get our drinks from the fountain while R stayed behind and chatted a bit. It seems there really WERE no strings attached. We ate our food at our own table, as did the group of women that also got free meals. It also gave us some topics for discussion during our meal. On our way out R made a point of going back over to Brad (who is the leader of the church) and thanking him again. We were then on our way. Without any requests to join him for services or any literature in hand that was forced upon us. Just a simple, “God Bless You”. I wished him a pleasant evening.
Now, I’m not going to start going to services or anything like that, I am not a religious person. I believe that just being nice to other people in general is all that one should do. I think perhaps though, as a result, I might smile to an extra stranger or two. I should also confess that I did go to the churches website and read for a minute or 4. I believe that shall be the extent of my involvement with the church. But, perhaps I will find a way to pay it forward so to speak. Help a stranger change a tire, drive someone walking along a highway exit ramp with a gas can to the station, wave to a random person. And maybe, just maybe, buy someone lunch.